This post is sponsored by Sleep Buddy, however, all opinions are my own.
Naptime and bedtime are simultaneously the best and worst parts of the day around here. The best part: they are sleep and I get a break. The worst: getting them to actually go to sleep. There are times when it’s gotten so bad that I said screw it and would let my toddlers stay up. After one particularly long and dreadful evening that had me at my wit’s end, I knew I needed to come up with a better plan and stick with it. This was after joining nearly every baby/toddler sleep group on Facebook that I could find, reading constant books and even talking to a sleep consultant.
The one thing I have learned through all of this is that I was not alone. For some parents, getting their toddler to sleep is probably a challenge that they experience on a nightly basis. The whining, bargaining, and full out tantrums are people just as much a part of your child’s part-time routine as brushing their teeth and going to the potty.
One thing is for certain, this is just a part of life meant to be grown out of with time. For others, tackling the issue of enforcing bedtimes have been forged into a science, almost.
If you are having a particularly hard time getting your little one to bed every night, try incorporating these six things into your daily and nightly ritual.
This was a great tip that I actually learned from my pediatrician. It’s important to start your child’s bedtime routine long before they actually head to bed. For us, it starts about an hour before bedtime. We start by turning off all televisions and calming the girls down. Some days this can be difficult, as my husband thinks it cool to play with the kids before bed. However, all this does is seem to rile them up and get their adrenaline pumping. Everything from the music to our voices remains calm and relaxed. We are even sure to let them know every so often that bedtime is coming as to minimize the tantrums when it’s time for them to actually get in the bed.
Routines aren’t easy, especially if you have multiple kids and a full-time job outside of the home. But it’s important that we take our children’s need for sleep into account when we plan activities. I know this isn’t always possible, but getting a routine established early on or ask quick as possible, is key to alleviating as much bedtime stress as possible, for both you and your child.
It’s important to remember that changing your child’s sleep schedule or ending the bedtime battle will not happen in one night. Keep your expectations realistic and your patience high. Just continue to stay the course. Some nights may go well and others may not, but don’t lose it when things don’t go as planned, and most importantly don’t give up.
Make their environment comfortable
You want to make their room as comfortable as possible. A couple of my children are very hot natured; so I try and keep their bedrooms at a comfortable temperature (74 degrees), and I make sure that they have their favorite stuffed animal as well. Another quirk that one of my kids has; she loves to have her blanket thrown in the dryer for a few minutes so it can be toasty when she gets in the bed. While it’s a strange little quirk, I try to make sure I do this because it helps her to relax.
Keep Nap Time
Your first instinct when your child does not sleep at night may be to cut out their middle of the day naps all together. While this sounds like a great idea, in theory, it’s probably not the best. Lack of sleep may cause your child to be cranky throughout the day, which means that temper tantrum will more than likely increase as well. For some kids (like my youngest), this causes them to actually have higher adrenaline levels in the evening time, which makes it harder for them to go to bed at night. Instead of completely stopping naps altogether, try shortening their naps. If they normally take two and half hour naps, shorten it to one hour. Of course, you could always use the extra hour during the day, but wouldn’t it be better to have it in the evening? If your child is in daycare and you don’t have the option to shorten it, try starting a wind-down process as soon as you get in the house. Relaxing activities, no television, and dim lights are a great way to get your child into the mindset that it’s going to be bedtime soon.
Even the best-laid plans need help
My kids are generally good sleepers. However, there are nights where they need a little extra help. That’s where the Sleep Buddy System comes in. The system has a programmable light, that can be turned on in amber or blue. Plus it comes with a reward chart and stickers.We use the stickers to reward the girls for staying in the bed all night long.
The SleepBuddy Complete Sleep System includes the following:
You can purchase a Sleep Buddy here from Amazon.